Child divorce and dating
A single mom won't want to spend a lot of time dating a guy who doesn't want kids, so let her know up front how you feel about kids and the possibility of become a stepparent, suggests Kate Anthony in her Your Tango article, “Kate's Tips To Be An Awesomely Datable Single Mom.” If you have kids, you might let her know you understand how challenging dating is for a single parent.We laughed about it, because obviously I was joking. While I think telling your kids to “get over it” is harsh, I think saying something nice that is semi-equivalent to that might be appropriate.I have to believe that this woman isn’t alone, and that almost every divorced person with kids has gone through a time when his or her kids weren’t totally on board with the new guy (or girl.) You could get lucky. Maybe the other spouse in the divorce is already remarried, so by the time you meet someone special, your kids are relieved and happy for you.Dating isn't a single mom's top priority, so help her arrange things so she can get out with you.
Let her know you understand that her kids come first.
When your dad and I split up, I never really thought this would happen to me again, and surprisingly so, it did. Don’t you think I deserve to be happy with someone other than my children?